boy be brave be in love

Step 4 – LOVE

The step is about compassion or love, a topic that many people have an “anguished” delight before. It’s something we want at the same time as it scares us. In most cases people have learned to love conditionally that is if you are good or nice you get sympathy from others and get care but if you are not clever or kind it is taken away from you. Many feel that with love comes a lot of demands and freedom will be limited. What to choose, love or freedom? In this step you train yourself to love and lead people unconditionally. The surroundings will then seem more manageable though really it’s you that has changed. When we practice to create love in Qwan we do not look at love as a feeling that comes and goes. We look at love as a way of being or a point to create from.